Despite the images that portray beautiful and sultry women swooning over the macho, ever ready, sex-machine male, the cold, painful truth is that pornography makes men impotent!
Viewing pornography causes the body to produce and release various chemical drugs. Some of these chemicals produced are epinephrine, adrenaline, adrenocorticotropic hormone, noradrenaline, norepinephrine and testosterone. These chemicals cause an artificial high in the body. And as with addictive drugs, once these are experienced by the body, the mind seeks to find ways to produce them again.
As most pornography users will admit, there is no such thing as just one more look. Addiction comes easily and quickly.
And, as with a drug addict, the brain habituates and is no longer able to get high on the same erotic images and stimulating visuals that once turned him on. Therefore, he must seek more – more graphic, more carnal and more lascivious.
She assumes that when she sobers up, that the sexual acting out will stop. Only it doesn’t. Instead of picking men up in a bar or a club, she selects her partners at AA meetings and in other social settings. The behavior is still shaming her. It is still damaging her self-esteem. She wants to stop engaging in that behavior, but it is compulsive. She is at the beginning of recovery and has not yet learned good living skills. When she experiences hurt, anger, sadness, and even boredom, she feels compelled to engage in the sexual behavior. She may not even make the connection between her feelings and the compulsion.
1. Physical Impotence Getting aroused becomes increasingly difficult without continually seeking new pornography sources. Arousal with a spouse eventually becomes difficult or impossible because of addiction that the brain has to this potent drug. And just like the physical drugs, the brain/body needs more of the same thing to get the same rush.
2. Intimacy Impotence But physical (or erectile) dysfunction is only one “impotence” brought on by pornography addiction. Crippling to relationships is the “intimacy impotence.” The husband now begins to choose the lonely, cold “self-satisfying” option with electronic images because he is no longer able to connect with his wife and enjoy the emotional and physical intimacy of a healthy marriage.
3. Control Impotence Now the addict is compelled to seek out pornography. They are always seeking just one more look, just one more picture, just one more video – always promising themselves that this is the last one. And although they now need it to fulfill sexual craving, they probably don’t even find it emotionally satisfying. The behavior may produce shame and guilt, followed by a desire and perhaps a promise to self to stop, but the addict to pornography is now impotent to self-control and the behavior becomes a strong or irresistible impulse (in other words – a compulsion).
Addicts are attempting to alter reality with another substance – in this case, pornography. The porn images become the mind altering drug to the person addicted to pornography. And the addiction is often progressive – increasing in intensity, frequency and severity
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