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When A Motivational Approach To Success Is Not Enough – Self Improvement – The Fear Of Poverty

Sunday, October 31st, 2010

If you are driven into your choice of career by a fear of poverty I ask you to stop for a moment and consider the ramifications to your potential success of harboring this emotion inside you. Behind all fears is the belief that that which is feared can potentially happen. It has also been said that what you believe ultimately becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. In this case the belief in and fear of poverty predisposes you to this fate. Let’s have a look at why this is and what can be done about it.

A fear of poverty is in most cases based on some early traumatic experience of having been poor or exposed to deprivation of some kind. Often this occurs in one’s family of origin or may come about during one’s life as a result of an unfortunate financial crisis. Such experiences become stored in the mind and body as negative pre-programmed experiences that are associated with all their ensuing negative emotions i.e. fear of it happening again, sadness, anxiety, feelings of insecurity, feeling out of control of one’s future etc.

These memories live at an unconscious level yet constantly threaten to “break through” into conscious awareness whenever they are triggered by something that resembles them in some way. They also generate negative or pessimistic thoughts about financial security or success that float through the mind in uncontrolled ways. Such thoughts create doubts about one’s future security, one’s ability to achieve success, feelings of helplessness, lower ones’ self confidence and self worth, kill one’s motivation to try and achieve anything substantial, lead to procrastination or to an inability to take any risks.

So, success and self-improvement are two sides of the same coin. Friends, do make a start with towards both with these tips.

“Stop thinking yourself as failures. You are only human. Accept your failures and move on to make yourself acceptable to others.”

“When you see someone far superior to yourself, instead of indulging in self-pity, think of self-improvement. Think of acquiring inner beauty instead of only a good physique.”

“When you meet people feeling low and down, reach down to pull them up. Don’t slip down yourself in order to sympathize with them.”

“This whole world is a huge school where you learn from your mistakes and move on. A failure in a science quiz should never make you feel doomed and stupid. It’s not the end of the world. Always give scope for self-improvement.”

Many approaches have been devised to help individuals achieve success as is evident by the multitude of motivational speakers. Unfortunately simply motivating an individual to succeed and not addressing such limiting unconscious programs for failure and poverty will only get one so far before a crisis sets in. Such approaches may lead to cycles of success, failure, success, failure, etc… but rarely to unbridled success if one is carrying the fear of poverty within.

This fear and its underlying roots in the form of the traumatic memories I mentioned above must be released once and for all. This is now possible with a new process called the Mind Resonance Process® (MRP) an experience of which is freely available to you if you contact me at the web link below

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Is There A Way At All? – Anger Management For Children

Saturday, October 30th, 2010

Children undergo many physical and mental changes as they grow and their behavioural patterns alter dramatically. Their behaviour is based on different factors such as parents, teachers, peer group and the external factors that they are exposed to, which have a significant influence on the minds of the children. These factors sometimes might have a strong impact on the children’s mind that can trigger negative emotions. Some amount of the emotion anger is present in everyone and generally adults are conditioned to control their temperament under different social conditions better. But in children who are developing strong negative emotions, anger management plays a vital role for them to develop as more emotionally balanced individuals.

Factors that stir anger in children

Studies are evident of the primary factor that may evolve anger in children is violent parents or abusive relationships that they encounter during their childhood. There is also an interesting study that reveals children who are aggressive and hot tempered throughout their childhood will have a rather unsatisfied life when they are 30 years old. Exposure to constant violence activities such as watching action movies might engage the children’s mind in destructive activities. Punishment either by parents or teachers for the slightest errors can also instigate the child to develop anger.

Learn to think in the future – When something starts to anger you, think if it will matter to you 10 years from now. Chances are, the jerk that cut you off on the way to work this morning will not effect you in the future unless you act on your anger and get into an accident with them. If you learn to think this way, you will learn to forget about things that angered you in the past and you will feel a lot better about yourself.

Anger management techniques

The foremost technique of anger management for children is unconditional love; calm the child when he/she gets stubborn, irritable or throws tantrums. Do not admonish the child as that might worsen the situation, so give that extra attention, hugs and kisses. Engage the children in some constructive activities; indoor or outdoor games, brain games, video games etc will help the child to channelize their energy into something more meaningful. Brain games specially designed for children will help them to be occupied and enhance their mental health.

Also teach your children the importance of positive emotion such as happiness, love and laughter so that they can realise the effects of negative behaviour. Anger management for children also involves rewarding the child in small ways if they display positive emotions or when they themselves deal with their unpleasant behaviour

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What Winter Driving Taught Me – Creative Dreams

Friday, October 29th, 2010

We had a winter storm the other day here in Toronto. And as I was driving, I started thinking about what my winter driving had in common with my creative dreams. Here’s what I came up with.

1. Being grateful to be in my car, pointed in the right direction and moving (however slowly). Some days I don’t accomplish as much work towards my creative dream as I set out to. Other days it seems like I’m moving backwards.

There are ways of recapturing ones creativity and joy in living. We all need a sense of usefulness and purpose. A sense of leading lives that give us meaning. Generally after age 50 there is an inner desire to rekindle that sense of excitement, joy, and meaning in our lives. That little voice nudges us to start tapping into our dormant part and bring it forth. By relearning to tap into your creativity you can break free from the predictable and add a new dimension to your life.

When I see my 93 year old mother she is usually crocheting, At age 86 she rediscovered the joy of crocheting afghans. She now makes afghans for the ever increasing number of great grand children. She will say that crocheting makes her feel useful. Although her memory is failing the sense of usefulness and creativity is ever present.

I know I did it because I wrote them all down and made many into actual online articles. Many people have great ideas but they are fleeting thoughts and they don’t write them down. So who’s to say that you’re not having one original thought each month already, but you are simply ignoring them or you’re not tapping into the creative part of your brain and taking them to the next level.

Here are five ways that you can rekindle your creativity.

1. Experience your surroundings
a) stop and smell the roses
b) pay attention to what gives you a sense of wonder and excitement
c) cultivate your senses

2. Create energy for yourself
a) eat healthy nutritious food
b) value your body – exercise
c) develop a positive attitude

3. Live in the present
a) create a new mindset
b) not the past or the future but now
c) accept yourself as being perfect in the present

4. Tap into your interests
a) what did you enjoy as a child and as a teenager
b) are there things you have wanted to try – a new recipe, gardening etc.
c) your creativity will burst forth from the inside – when you get an idea take action

5. Discover what you enjoy doing
a) try different things til you tap into what gives you pleasure
b) there will be no boredom when you enjoy what you are doing
c.) by taking action you will rediscover your creative side.

Creativity is a human need. We tend to think that creativity belongs only to artists, musicians, writers, athletes, inventors, chefs etc. These people we admire for their special gifts. We all have our own gifts. By tapping into our creativity we enrich our lives

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