Archive for June, 2009

A Moody High School Student Displays Numerous Alcohol-Related Issues, Gets Expelled From School, and Has to See the School Counselor

Sunday, June 28th, 2009

Larry was a sixteen year old high school sophomore who was manifesting more than a few alcohol-related problems at school. Consequently, the principal told him that he had to see Miss Johns, the school psychologist, before he would be allowed to return to school.

Later that day when Larry went home after school, he had to go over his school situation with his parents. His Mother and Father were “relatively conservative” and explained to Larry that getting kicked out of school was not a satisfactory educational game plan. They informed Larry that failing to graduate from high school would probably be like a lead weight around his legs that may encumber his educational aspirations for the remainder of his life. What is more, Larry’s Mom and Dad were very dismayed that he was drinking in the first place and drinking with his pals in the second.

His parents told Larry that even though he may be a teenager, he has to comprehend without much delay that drinking is the road to financial problems, failure, ill health, and pain.

It was clear that his Mom and Dad were absolutely in concurrence with Larry’s principal and informed Larry that he had to see Miss Johns, the school counselor. After his discussion with his Mother and Father, Larry eventually agreed to see Miss Johns the next school day. So Larry called the school and made an appointment to see Miss Johns the next morning.

The Psychologist Asks Larry if He Understands Why His Recent Alcohol-Related Behavior Caused Quite a Bit of Anxiety By the School Administrators

When Larry arrived at his scheduled appointment with Miss Johns, she at once examined all of the alcohol-related difficulties Larry had experienced and asked him if he knew why his recent alcohol-related activities made the school administrators uneasy.

Quite honestly, Larry questioned why the principal explained to him that he had to see a school psychologist. As he expressed to Miss Johns, why should he see a professional psychologist about his drinking circumstances? Since virtually all of his classmates drink about as much as he does, primarily, drinking is no big thing. Stated more explicitly, if almost everybody is drinking, why is this such a major problem?

Miss Johns asked Larry when he started to drink alcoholic beverages. He said that some of his older friends introduced him to drinking beer when he was twelve or thirteen years old and in the seventh grade.

Miss Johns told Larry that while his classmates may indeed drink more than he does and that they may be a bad influence on him, the facts are that he is the one who is getting removed from school due to alcohol-related absenteeism, fighting, and delinquency, not his peers. In addition, Miss Johns also highlighted the fact that Larry, and not his classmates, is the one who is failing and who is missing at least one day of school per week because of his alcohol related issues. Lastly, Miss Johns highlighted the fact that due to his drinking activities, Larry is getting into a negative cycle of excessive drinking that can ultimately destroy his dreams, hopes, and aspirations.

In short, Larry’s involvement with teenage alcohol abuse was starting to thwart his ability to behave like an accountable young man. As pronounced by Miss Johns, “Just because most of your friends drink beer, wine coolers, wine, or hard liquor does not mean that it is the healthiest thing for you.”

Larry Learns That Ultimately He Must Be Responsible For Himself In Order to Avoid Damaging, Unhealthy, Dangerous, and Destructive Outcomes Down the Road

Miss Johns informed Larry that other individuals can undeniably influence an individual in a negative manner, but that the individual herself or himself has to sooner or later be responsible for herself or himself in order to stay away from unhealthy, dangerous, damaging, and destructive consequences in the future.

Fortunately, Miss Johns was very well equipped for her scheduled time with Larry. She showed him research studies and reports she had highlighted that listed various drinking facts and statistics that targeted most people in general. Then she showed Larry quite a bit of data that applied particularly to adolescents.

For example, Miss Johns emphasized the difference between alcoholism and alcohol abuse and explained to Larry that drinkers who continue to drink in an abusive manner regularly become alcohol dependent.

Miss Johns also articulated the concept of binge drinking that she defined as follows: consuming four or more drinks in one sitting for females and drinking five or more drinks in one sitting for males.

The Therapist Lists More Than a Few Alcohol Addiction and Alcohol Abuse Statistics and Facts

Then Miss Johns stated the following eight alcoholism facts and alcohol abuse statistics:

1. According to one study, just about 11% of 8th-graders, 22% of 10th-graders, and 27% of 12th-graders reported that they involved themselves in excessive drinking.

2. Between 48% and 64% of the individuals who pass away in fires have blood alcohol levels demonstrating drunkenness.

3. Children who are drinking alcohol by 7th grade are more probable to manifest academic problems, substance use, and delinquent behavior in both high school and middle school.

4. In the U.S., 33% of all suicides, and 25% of all emergency room admissions are alcohol-related.

5. In the United States among drivers between the ages of 15 and 20, fatal accidents involving a single vehicle at night are three times more likely to be related to alcohol than to other fatal accidents.

6. In the U.S., more than 40 percent of the individuals who start drinking before the age of 13 will develop alcohol addiction or alcohol abuse at some point in their lives.

7. In the U.S, by the time they are high school seniors, 80% of high school students have tried alcohol and 62% have been intoxicated.

8. Treatment for alcoholism has been shown to reduce criminal activity up to 80% among long-term offenders, has increased their rate of employment, decreased their homelessness, and reduced their health care costs.

Larry Receives An Important Primer on the Facts About the Short Term and the Long Term Consequences of Youth Alcohol Abuse and Alcohol Addiction

After Miss Johns went over the aforementioned alcohol abuse and alcoholism facts and statistics, it was plain to see that what Miss Johns made known to Larry was a real eye opener for him. Why? Because for the first time in his young life, someone not only made the effort to go over the long term and the short term effects of alcohol abuse and alcohol dependency, but she also made the effort to demonstrate what she was saying with alcohol dependency and alcohol abuse statistics and facts that related to everybody in general, and principally to underage drinkers.

Undeniably, it was almost as if a light went on and Larry instantly comprehended why he should not be engaging in hazardous and excessive drinking with or without his peers anymore. Larry thanked Miss Johns for her concern and for the material she reviewed.

Miss Johns then asked Larry how he felt about getting a physical examination and an alcohol evaluation for the alcohol rehabilitation he would probably need.

Larry thought about this for few minutes and then agreed to get a complete physical exam and to go through a thorough assessment of his drinking situation so that he could start an alcohol rehab program in a realistic time frame.

People in the UK Should Review the Idea of Obtaining a Bristol Life Coach

Sunday, June 28th, 2009

Bristol Life Coach

If you’re a UK resident who’s feeling un-directed and lacks drive, a Bristol life coach may be just the solution you need. Why try to go it alone when you can have a dynamic and dedicated partner who can help you with whatever your life issues are? Whether you need a specialized career coach or just common life coaching from a skilled professional, a life coach can help you illuminate and actively seek solutions to a variety of life issues. Your own life coach is an important component of any plan to shape your life for the better.

Bristol Life Coach UK- Points to Ponder

In the first place, you need to figure out specifically what you want to accomplish so you can tell that clearly to your life coach in Bristol. Would it be better, for example, for you to methodically go about your plans – or is making bold moves the better investment? Sometimes, people prefer life coaches that are no-nonsense when it comes to telling folks what they need to hear. Other people prefer a life coach who’s more like a cheerleader, standing on the sidelines while you take the lead. In either case, though, a good life coach will help you come to a clear understanding of what you’re facing and what you need to do to conquer your fears and any obstacles that might stand in the way.

UK Bristol Life Coach – Try Before You Buy

Many Bristol life coaching professionals will agree to supply a free, no-obligation sample coaching session. By all means, take advantage of this opening to see how professional coaching works. This allows you to discuss issues with the life coach to check your comfort level with the coach. You will be able to see how the life coach goes about their job firsthand. Once you’ve done this, pose some questions to the coach regarding how skilled and knowledgeable he or she truly is. Like psychotherapists who are required to undergo the process of psychotherapy, a certified life coach should have experience the coaching process. This lets your coach know what it’s like to be put through coaching methods. Given that past professions might shape the coaching process as it applies to you, see that you ask about what life coaches used to do for a living.

Doing a bit of thorough research on your part will guarantee your experience of life coaching in Bristol, UK is positive, valuable, fulfilling and beneficial.

Is Stressful Living Getting the Best of You?

Sunday, June 28th, 2009

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor, writes… …

Have you ever caught yourself trying to manage the Universe? The other day I woke up with a low grade dread of all that I had on my ‘to do’ list.

I’ll bet that never happens to you. You could simply be unaware that you ever try to micromanage the Universe. Anytime you stress about the minutia of your life, anytime you worry about what, who, how, when or if a particular thing is going to happen, then you’re trying to tell the Universe how to run the show. Any time you stress, get anxious about what’s not happening, what speed it’s happening at, or wanting something to turn out a certain way — you’re trying to micromanage the Universe. Going Beyond the Secret of the Laws of Attraction will require some deliberate attention.

In what state of mind do you wake up in the morning? Does your mind jump right into your To-Do list? I know this time of year tends to bring with it a lot of pressure and expectation. Places to be, things to do, plans to make, the endless lists.

In what state of mind do you wake up in the morning? Does your mind jump right into your To-Do list? I know this time of year tends to bring with it a lot of pressure and expectation. Places to be, things to do, plans to make, the endless lists.

B-R-E-A-T-H ….. Aaaaaaaaaahhhhh

Remember the Law of Attraction?
Like Attracts Like.

The the vibration produced by needing to get it all done, albeit sometimes subtle, translates vibrationally as anxiety. Or, “something’s wrong here, it’s not done, how’s this going to happen?” When fed into the gigantic intention fulfillment machine – a.k.a. the Universe – what gets drawn is the matched vibration or more of the same. The Universe hears and matches “it’s not done” “something’s wrong.” Oh-oh. That’s not what you want.
Clean up time. Time to clean up that vibration. Ready? I’ll teach you some excellent Law of Attraction tools.

What IS wanted? Oh yeah.

Take a long deep breath

“I want this season to be light and easy, joyous and generous, sharing and caring”.

Yes, that sounds really good. Let’s feel that for several seconds.

Feel light and easy. Mmmmmmmmmm.

Try on joyous and generous. Nice. Yes, Ill have some of that, please.

Step into sharing and caring. There you go!

It might take you a few minutes to pause, check in and realign to a higher intention. But good for you, you can do it.

I know you’re already feeling better.

Be the deliberate creator you were born to be by practicing being present to the essence of Joy, Ease and Generosity.

Be the focused allower of your Well-Being by doing regular daily check ins.
How do you check in?

You can scan your body for energy blocks or your emotions for low feelings. Are you shoulders up around your ears? Are your eyes squinted or eyebrows raised? How does your back, your stomach, other parts of your body feel, right now? Get up and stretch a bit

How’s your mood? Could you think of something to appreciate?

What’s your emotional state right now? Check in.

Are you letting it in? Letting what in? Are you letting in your natural state of Well-Being? Are you feeling good for no reason?

Is your feeling good dependent on good reasons? Be unreasonable.

Feel GOOD for no good reason. Just feel good to feel good.

I know because of the Law of Attraction that from this better feeling vantage point, you’ll start attracting even better feelings. And from that new point of attraction, more good is coming and then more and more and more. The better it gets, the better it gets.

Get on a good vibration roll. Send yourself thoughts of of love, abundance and better and better and better life experiences.
And expect them to show up.

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